I was reading the other day. Within that article there were some issues around confidence and weight that different woman faced. This is an issue for everyone I accept. But I think it can hit women harder than men sometimes.
Iv always got by on my looks and charm. I may seem harsh here in the written word. But actually put me in front of someone and I’m a charmer. I can talk/flirt my way into anything.
So today I want to talk about confidence and acceptance. I love myself, vain some will say, but screw them!
I used to have a model figure and a certain style. But as Iv got older my body changed. I’m 5.11, leggy, Iv always had big breasts no matter my size. But my body has changed.
I put weight on after I had my son. I lost some but I’m what is described as curvy now. I stand out because of my height too. That’s a unique selling point in my eyes lol. It doesn’t stop me being confident and sexy, because I’m different. I understand I’m not everyone’s cup of tea. (Ive had people point out on cams and pics Iv posted I’m curvy) But I know I’m someone’s at the same time. I have people who queue to speak to me. Who pay for pics, who stare and wank at them when they call.
Sexiness to me comes from acceptance, confidence and attitude. Iv been out with some stunning guys who are boring as hell, they feel like they don’t need to make an effort because they’re pretty. (sweeping generalisation, I know not everyone) They have nothing interesting to say. Yawn! I know some girls who are then same too. I also know that they aren’t attractive and sexy. That comes from within in my book.
The point I’m trying to make is be happy in you and people will notice. No matter what package you come in x