As you guys know I’m pretty relaxed about people’s fantasies and sexual desires. I try not to judge. But when I come across something I’m not happy with I’m won’t engage.
This call started of normally with the usual hello, how are you etc. But it soon went a bit pear shaped. He said he had a fantasy that he wanted to talk about but I might not like it. Me being me I said it’s fine I hear all sorts, don’t worry about it.
But he was right I didn’t like it. He wanted to talk about abduction and rape. I was taken back by his request. And also he blasé attitude as to how that might come across and what my response might be. When I told him no I wouldn’t entertain his request. He tried talking me around. Try it you might like it he said. I don’t want to actually hurt anyone. It’s just a bit of fun. Something taboo. It’s not like I’d ever do it!
Are you fucking kidding me you weirdo! Get off my phone! And if you call back I will report you!
I have a list of things I won’t talk about and this is on it! It makes me feel uncomfortable. I know people have fantasies they’d never act out. Sometimes they have them for purposes other than the obvious face of it reasons. That have nothing to do with the scenarios.
But with this I worry that if someone actually had those intentions and I encouraged them. Id never forgive myself if they acted them out. Or I gave them ideas etc.
So the short answer is get the fuck off my phone and don’t ever ring back.