Iv never taken a more uncomfortable call in my life!
I could have put the phone down but she needed some answers and I wanted to be supportive, a woman to woman kinda thing I guess. It helped I still got paid lol
Now I still don’t know who her husband is. He could be a regular who has told me a load of rubbish. But from what she said I didn’t know who he was. She told me she had got over the shock and was now angry about him ringing the line. She was furious about the cost and his motivation.
From the off I told her I just do a job. She could ask me questions about it. But if she started to get aggressive I wouldn’t be taking it and would put the phone down. I told her I could only answer generic questions not relating to a person. She was ok about that. I could tell by her voice she was shaking. Not sure if that was anger or nerves.
She asked what was the reason men ring. I told her there are a few. Single and not getting any. Have a secret fetish they can’t talk about (double life) are in unhappy relationships where sex is concerned. Want to talk about new interests regarding sex. Are a sub and want a chat. But mainly they are horny and just want to get off asap.
Next question. Do you not feel guilty? no I said. It’s not real. And the fact is they could be meeting real women and they aren’t. This pissed her off. She said she felt like it was the same on his part. She felt cheated on. At this point I decided to ask her if she knew why he rang the line. She said he wouldn’t say when she asked. Then in the nicest way I could. I told her there appears to be a communication issue in her relationship. She didn’t like me saying it. But she did agree.
She then freaked me out by asking what I had she didn’t. (that’s obviously hard to answer as I don’t know her) all I can say is I’m open-minded, none judgemental, never say no, I give each caller what they want.
She told me since she found out it has put a massive strain on her relationship. I told her im not to blame, im just a means to an issue. She started crying. (fuck don’t do that!)
I’m really sorry you feel bad right now but there isn’t anything else I can help you with. I can’t tell you anymore. Please don’t ring me again as I wont take your call. I think you should either speak to him or a counsellor. But don’t ring me again.
I wish I never engaged in this conversation. It was very uncomfortable and I am not sure I helped. I wont be doing it again. luckily this is the only parnter that hass ever rang. if i only get on ever two yrs I can cope with that lol