I’m a pretty easy going person. I take people at face value and accept what they tell me. I do this in work and life. I never been one to judge or question someone’s motivation unless there’s an obvious reason. Then I’m an utter bitch lol
I get that people reading what I write might find it odd or weird or they might be completely inspired and love it. Or might just accept it and read for enjoyment.
Iv had a lot of people contact me or want to get me involved in things they create online. I’m very flattered by this as I didn’t really think I’d be noticed, given the amount of great erotica writers out there. There are only a few I can think of that Id want to get involved in. Because I enjoy what they do.
Iv never really done the online blogging/posting social media thing. But Iv learnt very quickly as I’m sure many of you have. There seems to be a very small percentage of people who use you and your content online. For themselves and their benefit. Now I can see how this could be mutually beneficial (remember I’m learning about WordPress etc) for all parties involved.
But what’s really pissed me off and it’s happened a few times. Is Iv had people follow me, Iv read their blogs back.Iv done this out of politeness, in my world I should at least read what someone else is writing if they take the time to read mine. Which can be difficult for a dyslexic person. I want to be in a community that accepts me, gets me and also vice versa. Where I can appreciate others to.
On a few occasions I noticed I stopped getting some posts I follow. So I checked to see what’s happened. Then low and fucking behold! They’ve written something that’s either based on me or something like me. Which is very very different to what they’d normally post.
FOR FUCKS SAKE!!! At least ask me if you want to use me as a muse. I wouldn’t mind if you didn’t go all dark about it. Removing me from following you. Yet you still liking and commenting on my calls, asking me questions ect. Whilst!! writing stuff that’s very close to me and how I am as a person. It’s fucking creepy! Not to mention just plain bad manors.
Tell me if I’m out-of-order saying this? But I bet I’m not the only one who’s experienced this?