I am a bit nervous of writing this and I will try to be as sensitive as possible. I will be pretty matter of fact.
I had a very interesting call recently from a Muslim guy who cross dressed. Now in general I wouldn’t bat an eye lid at a cross dresser. But this guy was in a full burka and a practicing Muslim. The reason I am trying to be sensitive is I am very aware of cultural tensions etc. I have thought about whether to write this or not. But It was a call I received. And I did find it interesting to understand where he was coming from so I decided to write it. I will keep it brief.
Social stereotypes lead us in general to believe that there is a strict code around sex and sexuality within the Muslim community. So it was nice for me to meet someone who bucked that idea.
The gent explained that he found the burka very sexy, he linked it to his wife, as when they have sex she wears it. This is why he found it a sexual piece of clothing. I immediately likened it to stockings and suspenders. In the way that they are worn for sex, so men find them attractive. He completely agreed with that. He told me he just wanted to discuss it with someone who wouldn’t judge him (I am like a counselor sometimes hehe) He thought he might be a bit “odd”. I explained that it wasn’t that odd really, that talk to lots of cross dressers. Just he’s the first I have met in a burka.I explained that it isn’t odd, in fact its more “normal” than he would think. I asked whether it was just his wife’s clothing her wears. He told me he found his sister-in-law attractive and liked her sari. He had tried it on. He said he felt sexy in it and close to her but he knew he wouldn’t get to fuck her so wanked in it instead.
He said he felt a release from his manly self to being more feminine. I asked if anyone knew about him dressing. He told me that he didn’t dare tell anyone, for fear of being ridiculed. Although! he had been brave enough to go out in a burka once. Which he loved apparently.
All of the above just made me think that it doesn’t matter where you grow up, if you have faith or not. Or what color your skin is. Sex and turn ons are universal!